to take the stage, it might be things like: What if I mess up? Do I really belong here? What if they don’t like me? What if I forget

something?

That day, Sean taught us to put the focus where it belongs. We are not here for ourselves. We are here because we love people. We want to help. Therefore, we begin by putting the focus on the audience.

I like to think of it this way. A speaker might build an amazing rocket ship of information that can lift an audience to escape velocity

and a whole new mindset. But if the foundational launch pad is tipped inward, the rocket might never get off the ground. That, of course, is a waste of everyone’s time.

Even examining my intentions before preparing my slide deck and message is essential. I remind myself why I love teachers, corporate leaders, law enforcement, and young people.

I ask myself: How have they positively impacted my life? Why am I grateful for the work that they do? What is the best way to help and support them? After all, isn’t that the very definition of love? What value can I bring—from my learnings—to these amazing people? And how

can I learn from them during our live events?

Balancing everything, from start to finish, on the “L” word creates the best possible experience for everyone. In addition to love, there’s

another “L” word. Legacy. Sean Stephenson left one during his brief time on earth. Check out his TEDx video on YouTube, The Prison of Your Mind.

This blog was inspired by an NSA Conference event and a personal conversation with Sean Stephenson.